Once upon a time I was celebrating a friend’s birthday at a
bar along with an older Jamaican woman I had recently ended things with, a
Colombian woman who had picked me up at a house party and I was currently
dating, and a Dominican-American woman I was meeting for the first time and
ended up dating 3 months later, when I met an author, Sujeiry, who wrote for
Latina.com and maintained a website concerning love, sex, dating, and
relationships. She was intrigued that I was
juggling three women in that social setting without any dramatic fireworks and
invited me to blog about my experiences from the male perspective on her
website. Thus, my blog RuMANating
Intercourse was born. Why do I write
about love, sex, dating, and relationships?
Love. There is no
feeling like looking into the eyes of someone you love and would do anything
for and feeling loved by them in return. Perhaps this may explain why some people obsess
about their pets to an excess, but in the least it explains why everyone
considers their children to be the source of their greatest joys. Some of us are fortunate to experience love
with a romantic partner and spend our days in utter bliss, awakening our
carnality and indulging in plenty of …
Sex. This is not the
I smashed, let me get mine, I’m in a power struggle with the opposite gender
because I have unresolved parental issues. I mean tantric, spiritual, sensual, multiple
orgasms, embracing our humanity by exploring our sexuality, safe comfortable
environment where we can please each other and the safe word is “IDontWantYouToStopButINeedABreak”. The sex is so good, and we’re both famished
from having sex all day long and need to eat something else besides each
other. So we share a meal, go to the
movies hoping for an empty theater, steal away on a vacation together and
attempt to join the mile high club and before long all your friends will think
you’re …
Dating. Yes, that
awkward, overly complicated, too many damn rules, don't know what's going on
process that is complete and utter rubbish. The idea is to get to know the other person
but more often than not it’s a drawn out struggle and negotiation because a
relationship cannot be agreed upon and neither side has decided to walk away
just yet. In reality if it’s not moving
forward, it's stagnant and you're wasting your time on something isn't meant to
be. Because when it is meant to be, it’s
downright simple and easy to get into a …
Relationship. These
are what matter most in life. You can have
all the finest things, travel to all the exotic places, and indulge in the best
the world has to offer but it's the people you maintain relationships with that
always bring you the most enjoyment and satisfaction. So then why are relationships so damn hard
sometimes and so much work?
Let’s explore…
*Originally posted on dailyenthusiast.net on September 3, 2013.
